This past Sunday was my first Mother’s Day as a mom. While we didn’t do anything out of the ordinary, it was special. And, honestly, my ordinary is extraordinary to me.
I spent a lot of time thinking. I thought about how incredibly lucky I am to have a mom and daughter who are both better than I could have genetically engineered. I’ve also given my daughter the best gift possible; a loving, devoted, caring, proud, honest, courageous, driven, hard-working, smart and fun (I could keep going :)…also better than I could genetically engineer) father. This is a gift my mother also gave me.
My feelings of deep love and gratitude were heightened by thinking of those who no longer have their moms Earth-side. I also thought of the incredible mom role models I’m lucky to have within my circle.
My favorite moment of my first Mother’s Day was FaceTiming with my mom (Mimi to Ellie). Though it was brief, those 10 or so minutes Ellie lasted sitting still were so very sweet. For as long as I can remember, my mom has made me feel loved, comforted, safe, accepted, encouraged, empowered and supported…no matter how bratty I was : ) I strive to do the same for Ellie.